Jack up the front
Remove the wheels
Remove the front bumper
Drain the rad
Undo the rad hoses from the engine
Remove the upper rad support
Remove the rad
Remove the rad overblow tank (pull straight up, no clips, just they get stuck with dirt)
Undo the fuel line at the rail
Undo the brake booster hose
Undo the shifter cables on the trans
Undo the heater core hoses at the firewall
Undo your clutch slave (if manual)
Undo the large engine harness connector (one by the ECU, has a lever on it to engage/disengage)
Undo your exhaust at the bottom of the manifold
Drain your trans
Undo your strut-knuckle bolts (24mm heads)
Pull the axles out of the hubs
Pop the axles out of the trans with a flat head screwdriver or pry bar (needs to pop out, won't go slowly, sometimes using two works best)
Connect your engine crane
Undo the front and rear motor/trans mounts
Remove the crossmember those mounts sit on
Undo the passenger side motor mount
Undo the driver's side trans mount
Remove the trans mount from the trans entirely
Check for anything missed still hanging on
Lower the engine/trans down, and rotate it
Lift it up and out
Just a quick write-up by memory. Should be ~99% of things in a fair order